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I have spent many years trying to discover the ONE thing – the one vital choice – that leads to healing and joy, or to suffering.
Over 35 years ago I discovered an essential piece of the puzzle: that we each have only one to two intents at any given moment – to protect against pain [...]

We all want to be respected by others. And, we would all love to have control over whether or not others treat us respectfully. Is this realistic?
Nigel, one of my clients, has a lot of confusion about this issue. He believes that people, especially his wife and children, “should” be respectful to him, and he [...]

First and foremost, we have to look at the nature of addictions and just what kind of things you would be able to know about this. One thing that you need to know about is that addiction is part and parcel of the lives of people all over the world, and this can range from [...]

The thing you need to realise about the whole concept of hypnosis to quit smoking is something that you need to perhaps rethink when you are trying to actually kick the habit. Now, when we are talking about the drug or nicotine, or the act of smoking, they are all placed under the category of [...]

Mental Health – Relationship between Suicide and Self-Harm
Suicide and self harm in connection with serious mental illness based on sudden changes in mood, behavior, thoughts, and experience the very unpleasant symptoms. People with serious mental illness are at extreme risk of suicide and self harm.
What is the relationship between suicide and self harm?
Often, attempts at [...]

Does anger have power? Are you being powerful when you are angry? The answers to these questions depend on what you mean by power.
Certainly you can intimidate many people with your anger – especially children or others who are physically weaker than you, or people who are terrified of disapproval and rejection. Anger – other [...]

There is a big deal in the addiction recovery process that has taken more people back to their addictions than any other ? Sex. Is that true? It?s as true as anything. You?ll hear, ?Finance and Romance?, quoted a lot as ?slippery? things to watch out for. There is also a lot written about the [...]