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When a smoker reaches for their last cigarette when they can’t get more in a timely manner, it creates anxiety. Some people think this is due to nicotine withdrawal but it’s not. The person is anxious, not because they need a cigarette at the moment, but because they know they won’t have one for their [...]

As I have discussed in other articles, the driving force behind smoking is not the cigarette/nicotine. The thing that keeps a person smoking is the Psychological Smoking Mechanism. The foundation for this mechanism is consciously laid by the beginning smoker at an early age. However, it is strengthened over the years by Associative Learning.
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There are many kinds of brainwave technology out there that you can look at. If you notice one thing and one thing only, the whole concept of the personal development industry and mental power is that the industry has really grown over the last few decades, and we are in a good position to take [...]

How the choices we make reveal our true nature
Those of you who grew up in the 80?s might remember a series of ?Choose your own Adventure? books where at the end of every page you had to make a decision and that determined what happened to you next. This article will take you on a [...]

As has been said in these articles, it is very, very hard to simply quit smoking. This is because the smoker has built a psychological smoking mechanism from an early age and reinforces it with every cigarette. You see, it takes great WILL POWER to smoke each cigarette. The WILL POWER is generated by the [...]

In the first three parts of this article series, we have discussed how the reasons a person started smoking at an early age helped to build the psychological smoking mechanism. This mechanism begins to operate beyond conscious control because the smoker has long since forgotten why they started smoking. The first part of the process [...]

In part 1 of this article, we discussed real chemical addiction and how stopping cold-turkey can be life threatening. We also pointed out that although a smoker claims, “I’m dying for a cigarette,” no one has actually died because they didn’t get a smoke.
The reason it is important to understand that cigarette smoking is a [...]

Lately, when I’ve been interviewed about smoking cessation, the host will usually ask, “Isn’t nicotine addiction the reason most people are not able to successfully quit smoking?” They are surprised when I tell them nicotine is not a real addictive substance because it doesn’t have the characteristics of an addictive substance. The drive or compulsion [...]

One thing that rules all of us is the fact that we have fear in our lives, and how we are going to overcome that fear is something that is really important. One thing to know about this is that the pathology of fear is something that hooks into the mind and it stays there [...]

When we are looking about the psychological definition of the word fear, what we have in fact is the power of the mind to make such a forceful association that it actually leaves us without any confidence to face that sort of association. Let us look at the example of the fear of water, and [...]

One of the first advices that people try to come to me and ask for is how to improve their love life, and for me, the answer seems to always be the same. The one common ailment that I can spot among all the people that I have seen is that they have a unique [...]

This is the true art of seduction you need to use the power of your mind, where you get the party that you are interested to actually seduce you instead. We have been going about it all wrong for a long time, and what has been happening is that we have been trying to seduce [...]

In part 1 and part 2 of this article series, we have discussed how the reasons a person started smoking at an early age helped to build the psychological smoking mechanism. This mechanism begins to operate beyond conscious control because the smoker has long since forgotten why they started smoking. The first part of the [...]

One of the ways to use subtle mind tactics and the power of the human emotive matrix is to increase your credibility and this article will tell you how you can do this within the first few moments of meeting someone. The tricks of the trade are actually being used quite subconsciously by people all [...]

One of the great things about this New Age form of getting people to improve themselves is that it is pretty easy to do once you get the hang of it. The only problem with this is that the action is fairly repetitive and you will get a lot of mental and physical inertia when [...]